Personal Growth

How “Small Stuff” Point to Larger Truths

No matter how many times broccoli is cut down into smaller pieces, each piece will always resemble the larger whole from which it came. In physics these pieces are called fractals, and their uncanny resemblance to each other is called self-similarity.

Controlling What We Do & Don’t Desire

We judge others by their actions. Yet most actions start as mere desires. And it’s a lot harder to judge someone for a desire, isn’t it?

Impostor Syndrome: Why We Feel Like Frauds & What to Do About It

Getting the girl, getting the job, getting the right reputation—my entire life was all about the “getting”. I was on a continuous conquest of everything I thought I needed for happiness. But after getting comes stewarding, and that’s where my problem began.

Beating Anxiety

I’ve dealt with anxiety for as long as I can remember, but to this day I struggle describing it. It’s as if someone dropped a boulder on my chest; but it’s not only that. It’s also a sudden surge of restlessness followed by paranoid feeling that everyone can see something is wrong with me. It’s awkward, unsettling and also incredibly confusing. How could I be totally fine one moment and then be super anxious the next when nothing around me changed?

The Purpose of Pain

I’ve always heard it said not to touch someone’s dog while its eating. It may get aggressive. Well, last October I put that theory to the test. My wife and I were at her grandfather’s house in Ukraine. Seeing as ADT doesn’t have a strong presence in rural Ukraine, guard dogs are quite popular. Naturally, my wife’s grandfather also had one of these dog. I know what you’re thinking, “no way you tested that theory out on a guard dog”. Yes way.

Embracing Heaven’s Training

I’m an internal processor with a vivid imagination, so daydreams are my treat! I love visualizing the future. I often see myself going on adventures, reaching goals and building a healthy family together with my wife. I imagine lavishing my future children with love, wisdom and provision. These dreams motivate me to work and grow so that one day I could be a blessing to both my kids and the subsequent generations to follow.

3 Life-Changing Lessons from Improv Comedy

What do Steve Carell, Stephen Colbert, Tina Fey and Amy Poehler have in common? Aside from being accomplished comedians, they’re also former members of The Second City, a Chicago based improv theater club.

7 Virtues for Stepping into Your Calling Like Jesus

Parents often believe that their children are special. Many even have collections of heartwarming stories to prove it. Well, Jesus’ parents had WAY more. From the angelic annunciation of his birth to stellar signs in the sky, it was clear to mom and dad that their boy had a big call on his life.

Breaking through Creative Blocks

If you’re anything like me, you often hit a creative block when beginning a new project. Some people call this the blank canvas syndrome. It happens when you are faced with a clean slate that has an infinite number of possibilities, and your mind scatters a thousand directions.


More often than not, getting what we want is simple; it’s just not easy. For example, there is a simple action you can take to avoid the long lines when renewing your driver’s license: be the first one there. Now this may require waking up earlier, arriving a few minutes before the BMV/DMV (depending on where you live) opens and perhaps standing outside of its doors in unpleasant weather.